How Do I Get My Partner to Try Something New?


Exploring new experiences in the bedroom can be a fantastic way to deepen intimacy and connection with your partner. If you’re curious about introducing something new but are unsure how to approach the topic, here are some thoughtful tips to guide you.

  1. Open Communication: The foundation of any healthy relationship is open and honest communication. Start by sharing your feelings and desires in a non-pressuring way. Use “I” statements to express yourself, such as “I’ve been thinking about trying something new and exciting together in the bedroom.”
  2. Create a Comfortable Environment: Choose a relaxed and private setting for this conversation. Avoid discussing it in the heat of the moment; instead, find a time when both of you are calm and can talk openly without distractions.
  3. Respect Boundaries: It’s crucial to respect your partner’s feelings and boundaries. Be prepared for them to need time to think about your suggestion. Remember, consent and mutual comfort are paramount.
  4. Educate Together: Sometimes, the hesitation comes from a lack of knowledge. Consider researching together. Whether it’s reading articles, watching educational videos, or exploring resources that explain new techniques or toys, learning together can alleviate fears and spark mutual interest.
  5. Start Slow: If your partner is open to the idea, start with small steps. Trying something new doesn’t have to be a giant leap. Gradually introduce new elements to your intimate life, ensuring both of you are comfortable and enjoying the experience.
  6. Reiterate Your Love and Support: Reinforce your commitment to your partner and your relationship. Let them know that your goal is to enhance your intimacy and connection, not to replace or undermine your current bond.
  7. Remember that we have many items that add fun and spark back into the bedroom: Choosing what could work for you does not have to break the bank, nor does your partner need to feel like you are replacing them.  In fact, it is quite the opposite: You want to bring back the closeness you once shared, or you want to alleviate the boredom that has set in.

Encouraging your partner to try something new in the bedroom is about enhancing mutual pleasure and deepening your connection. By approaching the conversation with respect, patience, and openness, you can create a fulfilling and exciting intimate journey together.

If you need some additional information about a particular product and how it might fit into your bedroom pursuits, drop me a line. I will be happy to discuss it with you discreetly. 

Thanks so much for reading!


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Trish Stoecker
I retired from the Army in 2016 after 32 years of service, including two overseas deployments. After I got settled, I wanted to start my own business, and Pure Romance quite literally fell into my lap. I love what I do, and the first time a woman approached me and told me I "changed her life," I knew I made the right choice. Pure Romance is more than just toys: We are all about Educating, Empowering, and Entertaining women to enhance their relationships and help them feel better about themselves.

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