Splish, Splash…Let’s Talk Sexy Water Play

There’s something undeniably steamy about the idea of getting frisky in the water—whether it’s channeling your inner siren in the bathtub or heating things up in a hot tub under the stars. The fantasy? Super sexy. The reality? It can be, if you know what you’re doing. So before you dive in headfirst, let’s float through some do’s and don’ts to keep your aquatic adventures hot (but not hazardous). Here’s what you need to know about sexy water play.

💦 Let’s Start with the “Do’s”:

✅ Talk About It First
Water play can be exciting, but it’s not the time to surprise your partner with spontaneous mermaid moves. Get on the same page and make sure you’re both into the idea.

✅ Plan Ahead
This isn’t a “heat of the moment” kind of scene. You’ll need privacy, prep, and the right environment to make things fun and safe.

✅ Choose Your Waters Wisely
Think private pools, bathtubs, or hot tubs—not the neighborhood beach or that sketchy motel pool. Bonus points for a clean, cozy shower (which also happens to be the safest option).

✅ Lube Up (the Right Way)
Water washes away natural lubrication and most water-based lubes. Enter: silicone-based lubricant—your best friend in water play. It stays slick, even underwater, and can help prevent any friction faux pas.

✅ Play with Positions
Water changes the game when it comes to movement and balance. Try positions that take advantage of buoyancy—like standing with support, edge-of-the-pool action, or floating fun (if you’re feeling adventurous and a little bit coordinated).

✅ Stay Clean & Smart
Rinse off before and after, avoid getting water inside the body, and skip full-on intercourse if you’re not using reliable protection. Condoms don’t love water—they can slip, break, or just not work well. Consider saving penetrative sex for dry land.

🚫 Now the “Don’ts”:

❌ Don’t Trust the Water to Keep Things Clean
Water might look sparkly, but that doesn’t mean it’s sterile. Hot tubs especially can be breeding grounds for bacteria. Think UTIs, yeast infections, and more. Hygiene is still queen.

❌ Don’t Use Oils
Coconut oil, baby oil, or any other slick substances may seem tempting, but they’re terrible for latex and tough to clean. Stick to silicone-based lubes that are designed for the job.

❌ Don’t Skip the Aftercare
Rinse off, use the restroom, and hydrate. Yep, even when you’re surrounded by water, your body still needs love post-play.

❌ Don’t Assume It’ll Be Like the Movies
Cinematic water scenes are designed for the camera, not your comfort. It might be clumsy. It might be short. But if you can giggle your way through it? You’re doing it right.

🌊 Water Play = More Than Just Intercourse

Remember, not all water play has to lead to sex. A sensual shower together, a steamy massage, or heated make-out session in the tub can be just as intimate. The magic happens when you feel confident, connected, and carefree.

Because let’s be honest: the sexiest thing in the water isn’t the bubbles—it’s you.

Trish Stoecker

I retired from the Army in 2016 after 32 years of service, including two overseas deployments. After I got settled, I wanted to start my own business, and Pure Romance quite literally fell into my lap. I love what I do, and the first time a woman approached me and told me I "changed her life," I knew I made the right choice. Pure Romance is more than just toys: We are all about Educating, Empowering, and Entertaining women to enhance their relationships and help them feel better about themselves.

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