You Want to Get a Vibrator. Now What?
Selecting your first vibrator can be an exciting and personal decision, but it can also feel overwhelming with the many options available. Here are some steps to help you choose the right one for you:
1. Determine your needs and preferences:
o Consider what type of stimulation you prefer – clitoral, vaginal, or both.
o Think about the size and shape you’re comfortable with.
o Decide whether you want a rechargeable or battery-operated vibrator.
o Consider your sensitivity level and whether you prefer gentle or intense vibrations.
o Decide on your budget.
2. Do your research:
o Read reviews and user feedback to get an idea of what others have enjoyed. If you feel comfortable discussing with your friends, get their opinions on which models they like and recommend.
o Look for reputable brands and manufacturers known for quality and safety.
3. Set up a meeting with your Pure Romance Consultant.
o She has products you can see and touch, which can be helpful in making a decision. Brick and mortar stores that offer vibrators for sale won’t let you open the package, so what you see is what you get, and it might not be to your liking once you actually handle the product. Your Consultant can also answer any questions you might have about the features, cost, and details of one vs. another.
o If you prefer to shop online, make sure to read product descriptions, reviews, and customer ratings carefully. However, if you have questions, your Pure Romance Consultant is always available to help guide you through.
4. Choose the type of vibrator:
o Bullet vibrators: Small and discreet, great for clitoral stimulation. Very portable and perfect to tuck in your bag for getaways.
o Rabbit vibrators: Designed for both clitoral and vaginal/G-spot stimulation.
o Wand vibrators: Powerful, versatile, and great for all-over body massage in addition to intimate stimulation.
o G-spot vibrators: Designed for targeted G-spot stimulation.
o External/clitoral vibrators: Focused on clitoral pleasure, but can also be used for nipples, and other areas as desired.
5. Material and hygiene:
o Ensure the vibrator is made from body-safe materials like medical- or cosmetic-grade silicone, ABS plastic, stainless steel or tempered glass.
o Check if the vibrator is easy to clean and maintain.
o Always purchase toy cleaner with your new product if you do not already have any. Cleaning your toy both before and after use ensures maximum protection against bacterial and microbial infection. Toy cleaner cleans and disinfects much better than soap and water, plus it won’t dry out the silicone the way soap can. Storing your new toy in a Toy Tote, with an anti-bacterial and anti-microbial lining, will protect your investment and keep it secure from prying eyes.
6. Noise level:
o Some vibrators are quieter than others, so consider your privacy and whether noise is a concern. Do you have children or live with others? Sound level is definitely a consideration here.
7. Power source:
o Decide between rechargeable and battery-operated vibrators. Rechargeable options are eco-friendly and cost-effective in the long run, plus, you are never scrounging around trying to find extra batteries when it dies.
8. Features:
o Look for features that appeal to you, such as different vibration patterns, intensity levels, remote control, or app connectivity.
9. Start with a beginner-friendly option:
o For your first vibrator, it’s often a good idea to choose something simple and user-friendly. You can explore more advanced options later as you become more comfortable.
10. Personal preference:
o Ultimately, choose a vibrator that resonates with you personally. Trust your instincts and go with what feels right.
Remember that there’s no one-size-fits-all answer when it comes to choosing a vibrator, and your preferences may change over time. Be open to experimenting and exploring to discover what works best for you and your unique desires. You might find you need several vibrators that do different things, so having those options available to you in your nightstand drawer is a necessity. Of course, having a few different lubes to pair with them can make the experience that much more exciting as well, and I discuss why lubrication is important in a previous blog. Have fun selecting your new toy!
Thanks so much for reading!
Trish